Christmas in a small town

This holiday season is probably the first time it has really hit home that we are not in liberal land anymore. The first hint? When AJ shared that he learned Silent Night in music class that day. I was a little thrown, I admit, not just a Christmas song, but a religious one at that. I confess I did speak to the principal about it. Interestingly, she assumed we don't celebrate Christmas, and that's why I was bringing it up. I said we did, but knew that not everyone else does. She was very understanding and, frankly, I didn't ask for a lot. I was mainly raising it for future thought. We left it that she would talk to the music teacher about a less religious choice.

The big hint? That would be the great big manger sitting in front of the courthouse on main street. Apparently, as part of Christmas in Old Town, you can dress up and get your picture taken in a living nativity. I think it is meant to provide an alternative to the whole Santa photo op and is actually a pretty neat idea. My neighbor mentioned her daughter wanting to get a photo and raised the issue of the location, she knew I would have noted it. I said I wanted to get a picture to show friends in DC. She said "yes, we love Jesus out here" with a lot of conviction in her voice. This reminded me of my conversation with the principal. The idea seemed to be that you would only find something wrong with it if you didn't agree with the sentiment expressed.

This makes sense to some extent. After all, if everyone is Christian then a manger in front of the courthouse doesn't matter. It is only the existence of non-Christians, be they atheists, Jews or Muslims, that makes any of this an issue. I can't say I would have a problem with it if I knew for a fact that no one else would mind. So from one angle, loving Jesus, or perhaps not loving Jesus, is at the heart of the problem. If the nativity is only for those who already love Jesus then fighting to keep it in a location you find important makes sense, regardless of who you offend, because it doesn't matter, largely, what those who don't believe in Jesus feel.

I think, however, that it's not just for those who already love Jesus. I firmly believe a nativity scene can be significant even for those who will never see Jesus as a savior. Whether someone is a true believer or not, his existence and teachings can have a huge impact on them, and the nativity is one of the reminders we have that he was here and had something to share. Also, teaching others how to live better lives was his goal and Jesus probably knew you seldom bring about change in anyone by first offending them. Similarly, people who are busy being upset about the location of the manger will be far less likely to take in the simple beauty and message that a living nativity can offer. And isn't the message what really matters, not where you see it? Keeping that location feels a little to me like winning the battle but losing the war.

For now, however, I will choose my battles and heed my own advice about not offending others while seeking change and simply enjoy Christmas in my small town.